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Aussie teens say sex education is leaving them unprepared for relationships 

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A new Edith Cowan University (ECU) study in Youth has revealed that Australian teens feel sex education is falling short, leaving them unprepared to navigate complex relationship dynamics.

The research highlights a need for more balanced and practical approaches to relationships and (RSE) in schools.

The study, led by ECU researcher and sexologist Giselle Woodley, was conducted with 49 Australian teens aged 11–17. Through interviews and focus groups, researchers found that while education is a critical and welcome addition to the curriculum, it often emphasizes fear and risk rather than fostering positive, respectful, and mutually enjoyable relationships.

"Teens reported feeling that lessons focus too heavily on legal definitions and risk avoidance rather than equipping them with real-life skills for communication, empathy, and ," Woodley said.

"They understood the importance of consent; however, they didn't want these discussions to occur at the expense of information about practical skills and additional knowledge within RSE.

"Teens want tools to build healthy relationships, not just to avoid harmful ones," she said.

Consent education progress: A starting point, not the destination

The implementation of mandatory consent education in Australian schools was driven by advocacy efforts, including Chanel Contos' Teach Us Consent campaign, which brought national attention to sexual violence prevention.

However, Woodley said that the findings of this study show that progress should not stop at teaching consent as a binary concept.

"While consent education is a critical part of RSE, it's only one piece of the puzzle," she said.

"Teens told us they need more than rules about permission—they need guidance on how to communicate desires, set boundaries, and navigate relationships in ways that feel authentic and respectful.

"Even Teach Us Consent have begun to go beyond consent and are teaching comprehensive RSE to young users via their newsletter."

Building skills beyond consent

The study outlines several recommendations to enhance RSE programs:

  • Broaden the focus: Move beyond consent as a legal concept to include communication, emotional literacy, and mutual respect.
  • Teach positive sexuality: Balance safety and risk discussions with content that promotes healthy and pleasurable sexual relationships.
  • Support educators: Provide training and resources to help teachers confidently deliver nuanced and comprehensive RSE.
  • Include diverse perspectives: Address the unique experiences of LGBTQIA+ teens and ensure all students feel seen and supported.

Calls for a fresh approach

The authors of the study are calling on policymakers, educators, and advocates to revisit the current approach to RSE to ensure it meets the diverse needs of young Australians.

"These findings clearly show that teens are ready for a more sophisticated approach to ," Woodley said.

"By expanding the curriculum to focus on relationships, communication, and pleasure, young people can be empowered to make informed, ethical, and fulfilling choices," she said.

More information: Giselle Woodley et al, '[Do] I Have to Get It in Writing or Something?' What Happens When Sexuality Education Is Conceptualised Through Consent?, Youth (2024).

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