3Qs: The evolution of profanity

#@&#! ProÂfanity has long been a key eleÂment of AmerÂican culÂture. We're proÂfane when we're frusÂtrated or telling a story or even when we're watching TV, but how do words get labeled as proÂfane and where do they come from? Here, Heather LitÂtleÂfield, assoÂciate acaÂdÂemic speÂcialist and head advisor of the linÂguisÂtics proÂgram in the ColÂlege of SciÂence, weighs in on society's "bad words."
Words are considered empty symbols until we attach meanings to them. How and why do certain words get labeled as profanity?
There are a number of ways in which words become "bad" words, but it usuÂally takes time for words to become taboo, or proÂfane. I'll try to keep my examÂples clean in this disÂcusÂsion, but the process is the same for the really bad words, too.
For instance, many of our worst "four-​​letter words" in EngÂlish stem from the difÂferÂences between the French-​​speaking nobility who ruled EngÂland folÂlowing the Norman ConÂquest of 1066. The English-​​speaking peasÂants absorbed some of the words that the nobles were using, but gave them a high-​​class spin. So while the French were referÂring to their houses ("maisons" in French), the EngÂlish peasÂants adopted the word with the meaning of a very large, impresÂsive house ("manÂsion"), and the EngÂlish word "house" was left to mean someÂthing more basic. This hapÂpened with cerÂtain body parts, for example. So instead of saying "Pardon my French" when we curse, we should more rightly be saying, "Pardon my Old English."
One typÂical process is that the word gradÂuÂally becomes conÂtÂaÂmÂiÂnated, necesÂsiÂtating another euphemism to take its place. For example, the word "toilet," which origÂiÂnally referred to a dressing table covÂering, came to refer to the room where the chamber pot is kept. Then, gradÂuÂally, the term came to feel dirty and people needed a new, clean way to refer to this same place. So they started to use "bathÂroom" (whether there is a bathtub or not). But then after time this, too, became more conÂtÂaÂmÂiÂnated, and another euphemism was creÂated: "ladies' room."
Do profane words carry special weight? Would curses lose their appeal if stigma were not attached to using them?
Yes! If they weren't conÂsidÂered extremely bad or dirty, then they would have no power or emphatic force whatÂsoÂever. It would be like trying to swear with a word like "flower." Can you imagine, "Oh, flower! I broke the window!"? It sounds funny, because it doesn't have that extremely negÂaÂtive meaning for us. SimÂiÂlarly, second-​​language learners often get into trouble because they learn a few swear words in the lanÂguage they are studying and then they use those words too casuÂally when they are travÂeling or living abroad. While the words are very proÂfane for the native speakers of the lanÂguage, the learner doesn't feel that same sense of force—they don't feel as bad as the swear words in the learner's native language.
Is profanity becoming more accepted by society or is it still considered taboo?
Norms of using proÂfanity really vary widely and depend on a range of facÂtors. For example, regional dialects have difÂferent norms for the use of proÂfanity. Now that I live in Boston, I've absorbed these local norms and I find that when I return to visit my home state of Idaho, I shock people with my casual and more freÂquent use of proÂfanity. The speaker's gender and age can also play a role: Women genÂerÂally use less and milder proÂfanity than men, and there are times of life when speakers use more or less proÂfanity. For example, people may make more use of proÂfanity in their colÂlege years, but then reduce their rates of cursing as they take on proÂfesÂsional roles and become parents.
And speakers often have difÂferent views of others' use of curse words. For instance, people are more likely to have negÂaÂtive views of women's cursing than men's cursing. And, of course, conÂtext plays a role: Think of telling a story to a group of friends at a bar on Friday night after work and telling that same story to your grandÂmother. Odds are that your use of proÂfanity will be greater in the former context.
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