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Canadian immigration policy has long emphasized family reunification. In fact, most of Canada's 200,000 yearly .

For these families, migration means more than just starting over—it means that each family member, and the unit, must adapt to the new culture while finding ways to maintain a connection with their original culture.

This dual transition, known as , can be a source of both growth and stress. The complexity of this process is well illustrated by examining the smallest-sized family unit: the immigrant couple.

Language barriers, social isolation and new parenting challenges often add to the everyday pressures of marriage. When partners adapt to Canadian culture at different rates and levels, these acculturation gaps can strain communication, shift power dynamics and challenge a couple's sense of connection and harmony.

What are acculturation gaps?

. Within families, . One spouse might quickly learn English, find employment and follow social norms, while the other may hold more strongly to traditional values or struggle with integration.

They may also adapt differently across domains such as child-rearing practices. These differences, known as .

Research on family acculturation has largely focused on . Yet spousal acculturation gaps—though less studied—may be equally influential.

Couples, after all, are the foundation of most immigrant families, and . These gaps may also spill over into parenting and other aspects of family functioning.

. When partners adopt new languages, norms or values at different speeds, they may develop mismatched expectations about family roles, parenting and daily decisions.

This mismatch can erode intimacy and communication, increasing marital stress and dissatisfaction. Studies have found that .

Power dynamics within the family can also shift. The partner who adapts more easily—perhaps gaining stronger language skills or financial independence—may take on more decision-making authority. This can .

As a result, couples may find themselves renegotiating not only household responsibilities but also their identities as partners, sometimes leading to tension or resentment.

Parenting adds another layer of complexity and pressure. Parents' beliefs and practices are deeply shaped by their cultural backgrounds. . For instance, one parent might encourage independence in line with Canadian norms, while the other emphasizes collectivist values. These .

When resilience meets policy

Not all acculturation gaps lead to conflict. suggests that couples' ability to adapt determines whether stressors such as language gaps strengthen or weaken the relationship.

While acculturation gaps can create vulnerabilities, . Couples' resilience and adaptive coping can mediate the negative effects of acculturation gaps on their well-being, enhancing long-term satisfaction and stability.

Unfortunately, recent immigration policies have added another strain on immigrant families. . Grandparents often provide child care, transmit cultural values and offer emotional support—resources that buffer acculturative stress and promote family cohesion.

Under the VSA model, the removal of extended-family support functions as an external stressor that intensifies couples' existing vulnerabilities. With fewer adaptive resources to manage daily stress, immigrant couples may find it harder to maintain resilience, marital quality and family well-being.

The story of couple acculturation is one of commitment and adaptation under stress. The success of this journey depends not only on language skills or employment but also on mutual understanding and support.

Immigration policies influence the ecology of resilience in immigrant families, yet within this context, couples must continuously negotiate acculturative stressors and gaps.

Well-adjusted couples are the foundation of thriving immigrant families and communities, and understanding couple acculturation gaps is a crucial step toward supporting them.